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There are many all around the world who are depending on you to give them a helping hand. As you extend your hand help to spread the gospel.

Our desires is to provide you with information and options. Please visit the sites to learn more about them.

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MAKE EVERY MOVE COUNT IN PUBLIC SPEAKING

Body control is the name of the game when you are speaking before an audience. You do not want to stand before an audience and be fidgeting with your hair, wringing your fingers, or tapping your feet. Why?

Because this does not portray confidence! It does not show that you are in charge and that you have things under control. As a public speaker—you may get nervous—but your audience never has to know.

As you grow in your public speaking, you will need to be deliberate about your movements and gestures. You want to make sure that each move will enhance your presentation. If it will not then you do not need to make the move.

I know this is easier said then done—because sometimes you may not be aware of your movements—but you should be. How can you be aware of what you do on a subconscious level? Observe yourself or have someone observe you.

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THE VALUE OF EYE CONTACT IN PUBLIC SPEAKING

Have you ever had a conversation with someone and they were staring at their shoes, or up in the sky? They seemed to be looking every where else but at you. How did that make you feel? What conclusions did you draw from their actions?

If you thought that the person was nervous, or shady, or that they were lying or that they lacked confidence you could be right. Eye contact communicates. It tells people many things about you—your job is to determine what you want your eyes to communicate.

What can eye contact tell people?

Effective eye contact can tell people that you:

  • You are confident
  • You are truthful
  • You believe what you are saying
  • You feel comfortable
  • You respect them

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HOW TO USE PUBLIC SPEAKING TO HELP YOUR CHILD GET MOTIVATED

There are many children that seem to lack motivation or a life focus. They wander through life letting life happen to them rather than taking the initiative—to be deliberate or determined.

How can you motivate them? How can you help them find their place in life? How can you help them to get a life focus?

You could send them for counseling. Or hope and pray that they will soon grow out of it. Or you can be proactive. You could use public speaking to help them find their unique path in life.

But how?

You could send sign your child up for a public speaking group. Or you could send him for private public speaking lessons. Or you could make it into a fun project that both of you could do together.

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Smart-at-Home Talk Radio

Smart-at-Home Talk Radio is now on Blogtalk Radio. You can visit us at www.blogtalkradio.com/smarthome. The show airs three times a month.

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Camping Gear

Ozark Trials

Model WT 98012-3

9 x 9 Dining Canopy

$29.88

This canopy screams good by if you want to be protected from the rain and sun while enjoying the great outdoors. However it has a flimsy construction. It wobbles while you try to assemble it. It does not have spikes in the poles which would help to stabilize it while you try to drive the spikes into the ground.

If you want a product that is hassle free, easy to assemble, sturdy construction, and will last you for years—buy another product. If you are looking for a cheap product for a limited time use—and you do not mind spending time trying to get the canopy assembled properly—then Ozark Trials, Dining Canopy is for you.

Not user friendly and it took four of us to try and assemble the unit—which we were not able to do. We tried the product out at Sebago Cabins the same day that we bought it and were forced to return the item the next day.

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Sebago Cabins—Bear Mountain

Rating 3.7 of 5

Sebago Cabins—Bear Mountain

Contact information

Sebago Cabins

Lake Sebago, Harriman State Park

Phone: 845-351-2360

Fax: 845-351-2636

Sebago Cabins is full of rustic cabins built in the 1930’s. Rocky paths and sunken trees surround this secluded campsite.

Camping Season 2009

Pre-Season April 17- June 26 (2 night minimum)

Peak Season June 27-August 29 (week minimum)

Post Season August – October 12 (2 night minimum)

Check In 3 pm (no exceptions)

Check Out 11 am (no exceptions)

Description

Sebago Cabins is a natural—rocky and hilly site. It has a rustic character that blends into the natural wild habitat of the deer and bear. This campsite does not have a resort feel to it. It is all about nature—fresh air, hilly plains, towering trees and rocks for miles, with a beautiful lake view.

Lake View

Sebago Cabins has a few cottages that overlook the Sebago Lake. The cabins in the C section of the campground are as peaceful as it is scenic.

Cost

The full service cottages have a private bath, linens on the beds, a fully supplied kitchen and heat (B5—studio and B7—two bedroom). They range from $670-$740 per week.

The other cabins range from $240-$405 depending if it has a porch (A3, A5, A11, A12, B12, C1, C2, C5), handicap accessible (A3, A5, A11, A12, and C1), has a lake view, or if it has three (A8, B1, B3, B4, B9) or four bedrooms (A6, B18).

If you want to secure a full service cottage or a lake view cabin you should book your reservations at least nine months in advance.

Amenities

They have porta–potties located not to far from the cabins. But if you are like me, you may want a toilet that flushes—these can be found at the main office where you check in or in the A section of the campground.

The communal baths. The women’s bath has two showers. They are small and you do not have a lot of space to bathe comfortably. Once you step out of the shower, you are in a sitting area getting dressed with someone you do not know—if you did not go with a friend.

The showers do not cut off like the ones at Wildwood State Park and the water remains hot though out the shower.

Each cabin has its own outdoor garbage can, picnic table, stone fire pit, and outdoor grill for your BBQ pleasure. There is a laundry room on the premises (it cost $1.50 per load).

There is no camp store on the site where you could pick up any forgotten items—like wood, rope or bug spray.

Activities

The campground has many fun activities for children—ping pong tables (there is a twenty-five cent charge for a ping pong ball), softball field, volleyball, basketball and tennis court. They also have group bon fires, swimming on the beach, movie and karaoke nights and boat rentals (require a $20 deposit and costs $5.00 per hour) for an excursion on the lake.

Sebago Cabins has many hiking trails for the hiking enthusiast. There is an absence of biking trails for bikers—if you want to go riding you could ride on 7 Lake Drive.

Shopping

About 20 miles away is the Harriman Commons Shopping Mall, there you will find a Super Wal-Mart, BJ’s, Payless, UPS, Wendy’s, Chili’s, Home Depot, TJ Max, Target, Mandee, Best Buy, Subway’s, KFC, Taco Bell, Provident Bank and more. The mall is just off Larkin Drive.

If you continue on Route 17 N you will find the Woodbury Centre which has a Staples, Michael’s and Kohl’s, TGI Friday’s, Dunkin Donuts, Sleep’s, Modell’s, Uno Chicago, Pier 1 Imports, Game Stop, The Christian Living Store, and more.

Less than five minutes away is the Woodbury Common Premium Outlets which has the Gap, Aldo, Fendi, Converse, Hugo Boss, Ralph Lauren, Neiman Marcus, Dior, and more.

No matter what your need or desire you can probably find a store that will meet it at one of these three shopping malls.

Security

The campsite is regularly patrolled by staff during the day and at night by the police and the park ranger—on the weekends.

Cell phone service

Apparently, only Verizon works out at Sebago Cabins. Some people report that AT& T also can be gotten there. But we did not have that experience—our AT&T did not work no matter where we went—by the check in office, in the cabin, down neither by the beach nor on the deck.

If you need to make a phone call go prepared—carry a calling card and use the pay phones at the registration office or you can get Verizon.

Animal sightings

Bears

On our first night there, we were warned that a bear cub was sited earlier. The ranger said that they would patrol all night—but we should not feed or pet the bear. He suggested that we not stay outdoors after 11 pm for that is the time that they come out to feed and get water.

According to the ranger each year a bear named Yogi comes down the same path to survey the campgrounds. Though he usually comes late night—he is a regular. Be safe and keep your children safe as well—don’t feed or pet these wild animals.

According to one of the night rangers the bears rarely come down into the cabin areas they mostly stay close to the garbage dump at the upper end of the campground.

Skunks

According to one of the rangers there has been an unusual amount of skunk sightings. He jokingly warned us to be careful around them for if sprayed we would need to bathe in tomato juice—and that would not be pleasant.

The next day after the warning we had the pleasure of meeting one of these fine creatures. As we attempted to light our camp fire—he came waltzing up the path toward our neighbor’s cabin. He toured the place and then left. A short while later he returned…this time closer to our cabin and campfire. We were all poised and ready to run at the first sign of trouble…but he decided that he did not want to stay around any longer. He headed for the woods and we were greatly relieved.

Chipmunks

Daily we were awakened around 6 am by the garbage activities of our neighborhood chipmunks. They would crawl underneath the cabin door to enter. Finally, we broke down and placed rolled towels secured by a chair to block their entrance. Though they are cute we could not take being awakened at six o’clock in the morning.

Deer’s

On our arrival we saw one deer lying at the side of the road—it was a sad sight. Later we saw four live deer’s which was an absolute thrill—unfortunately we did not have our camera ready to click a picture of these beautiful animals.

Our First Impression

Cabins are too close together. Paths are extremely hilly and rocky.

Our Cabin (B11)

A cozy two-bedroom cabin with refrigerator, hot plate (two burners), table and four metal chairs, broom and dustpan, four chairs and a kitchen table. The refrigerator was full of mold inside and out. The cabin was full of dust and dirt as if it had not been swept in years.

If you are adverse to cleaning this might not be the spot for you. Our cabin had many cobwebs in it but that is to be expected when you visit the great outdoors. The cabins do not have running water or indoor bathrooms.

Our Overall Impression

Sebago Cabins is a wonderful place to get away to distress and relax. The noise rules are enforces so you will enjoy your peace and quiet at night. The staff are mostly pleasant and friendly—but they seem to have a lot of free time on their hands. The grounds are fairly clean—and I suspect it is because the campers are diligent about cleaning up after themselves. We noticed the staff emptying cabin garbage cans on the weekend and occasionally during the week—but not daily.

The porta potties were clean when we arrived but during the week they wreaked of urine. The bathrooms are not daily attended by the staff—bugs and tissues remained in the bathroom for days. This we found disturbing since they had so much staff that seemed in need of a task to perform.

At other campgrounds staff clean the bathrooms three to four times a day…while Sebago Cabins seems to clean once a week if that often.

With limited cell phone service you will not have to worry about your boss ruining your vacation—unless you have a Verizon cell phone according to one of the park rangers! The site does have public payphones if you absolutely need to contact the outside world. The check in center will allow you to use their phones in the case of an emergency—provided the call is in New York or New Jersey.

Our experience would have been better if the unit was given a good cleaning before our arrival. The mold in the refrigerator and the cobwebs on the ceiling and walls took away from the rustic charm of the cabin—but these are the things you expect when you go camping.

All in all we had a wonderful time and we look forward to adding Sebago Cabins to our yearly camping excursions—even though the bathrooms are not as clean as Wildwood State Park and the showers and toilets are not together in the same building in all camp sections (A Section the toilet and the shower are together).

We give Sebago Cabins 3.7 out of 5 stars because of the natural beauty of the place. It is a warm and peaceful site. If it was cleaned and better attended by the staff we would have given them a 5 star. But we were forced to clean the cabin upon our arrival. We had to clean the showers before each use. We had to clean the sinks before we cleaned a dish and we had to clean the phone and the booth before we used them—as staff sat around by the recreation area lounging—both young and old.

Helpful tips

Clorox or Lysol Wipes

Carry lots of Clorox or Lysol wipes or hand towels and Clorox spray—to wipe the refrigerator. Sweep before settling into the cabin—and if you want it to be really clean bring along a mop—with floor cleaner. Take time to clean out your bedrooms and the bookcases.

Camping Potty

If you would rather not encounter a bear, skunk or raccoon at night while going to the bathroom walk with a camping potty.

Carry an Airbed

If you want to camp in comfort carry your own bed—we folded up the cots them to the side and blew up our queen size airbed putting our own bedding on it. It felt like home—after all we are a married couple not teens sharing a bedroom in a dorm. Furthermore, this is a wise idea if you will have more then four people in the cabin—they charge for extra cots no matter whom—child or adult—will be sleeping on it.

Clean Public Phones

If you plan to use the public phones carry a Clorox or Lysol wipes to clean the phone and the booth. I had to do this…and my wipe turned pitch black from the amount of dirt in the booth and on the phone.

Carry Flip Flops

Walk with a pair of flip flops when taking a shower…I noticed quite a few campers did not do this but stepped into the showers with their bare feet—this is okay if you cleaned it out but if not you could be opening yourself up to get a foot fungus.

Water Jug

If you want to save yourself a few trips up and down the hilly terrain then you should carry a 5-gallon water jug—that can be used to wash pots, food, to cook, to wash your face or brush your teeth.

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Greeetings

Do you know that God still talks to his people? Well, he does. And in these times he is speaking louder and clearer than ever…but it is for the person who is willing to hear…who desires to know.

In this section of our site we want to connect you with the prophetic voices. You will find links to other sites that publish what God is saying daily, weekly, monthly and periodically. Use discernment as you read. Though the word may be from God it may not be for you in this season.

Each of us are at different levels and stages in our walk with Christ Jesus.  And you will need to listen to what he is saying to you for your season and for your situation.

We do not endorse or promote any of these sites.  Whether you choose to believe or follow the counsel is your choice and not that of Smart-at-Home.

From time to time we will post  on our site words from various prophets as the Lord directs. It is our earnest desire that your life is blessed and your faith strengthened as you read these words from the prophets of God.

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Is Homeschooling for Everyone?

When I first started to home school my children I had this idea that it would be easy. I believed that my children would excel in their work and that all would be well. And at first this was so. My sons grades were A’s and B’s with a C now and again I guess for good measure.

But then something happened with my oldest son. He started to be come complacent. He felt that he could get good grades without studying and without putting much effort into it. His grades started to slip. He started to fall behind. At first it was one semester, then two, then a year, then two years.

I started to feel like a failure, even though my youngest son was doing so well. I was filled with shame because my oldest son who when in public school was the only child in his school to get out of special ed. because we worked hard, sacrificed and believed God promises.

Recently I found myself asking is homeshooling for him? Should I send him back to public school?

All the reasons why we took him out of public school are still valid–he was being exposed to thing s that he shouldn’t have been, gangs were running the place, his innocence was being robbed and a host of other things. So how can I send him back to that? Would he stand a better chance there or at home?

Though I am still struggling with this question, I believe that even if he learns at a slower rate, or his grades are not what I would like, there is a value to homeschooling. He is protected from the gangs and drugs. He has an opportunity to preserve his innocence for a while longer. He is able to have daily devotions with God. We can pray before, during and after class without violating any rules and regulations.

I don’t know if homeschooling is for everyone…but it is for me and my family. I believe that he will turn this thing around. The same God that delivered him from special education will deliver him from this too. It is not a question of if but when. And I know it will be soon.

If you are experiencing the same struggle with your homeschooler have hope  that it will change, but put your faith in Jesus that he will turn things around. Then you will know that Mark 11:23, 24 is true–if you believe with your heart you shall receive.

If you have been contemplating homeschooling but are still undecided your may want to check out…

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